Built on Gottman Method, NVC & Attachment Theory

Understand your relationships.
One conversation at a time.

Paste any text conversation and get psychologist-level insights in seconds. Communication scores, tone maps, dual perspectives, and tools to help you grow.

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RelAI Analysis - Communication score, summary, and both perspectives breakdown
Analysis
RelAI Tone Map - Message-by-message tone labels and dual perspectives
Tone Map
RelAI Cool-Down Mode - Rewrite angry messages using Nonviolent Communication
Cool-Down
RelAI Conversation Coach - Preparation framework for difficult conversations
Coach
RelAI Relationship Profile - Track communication history and scores over time
Relationships
0–100
Communication Score
4
Psychology Frameworks
3 Free
Analyses per Month
20+
Languages
How It Works

Three steps to clarity

No therapist appointments. No waiting. Insights in seconds.

1

Paste a Conversation

Copy any text conversation from iMessage, WhatsApp, or any messaging app and paste it into RelAI.

2

AI Analyzes Patterns

Using Gottman Method, NVC, and Attachment Theory, RelAI identifies what went right, what went wrong, and why.

3

Get Actionable Insights

Communication score, tone map, both perspectives, flags, rewrite suggestions, and growth tracking over time.

Features

See what your conversations really mean

Every analysis delivers a complete picture of what happened and why — plus tools to do better next time.

Communication Score

A 0–100 score based on Gottman's Four Horsemen: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. See exactly where communication breaks down.

Tone Map

Message-by-message tone labels showing shifts from warm to defensive, passive-aggressive to genuine. See the emotional arc of the conversation.

Both Perspectives

See how you likely felt AND how the other person likely felt. The context you never considered, revealed by AI.

Cool-Down Mode

Wrote something angry? Paste it in. RelAI rewrites it using Nonviolent Communication — calmer, clearer, more effective.

Conversation Coach Pro

Dreading a tough talk? Get a full preparation framework: opening lines, talking points, do's and don'ts, and repair phrases.

Ask Your Relationship Pro

Ask free-form questions: "Who apologizes first?" "How has our communication changed?" AI answers from your history.

Red/Yellow/Green Flags

Specific moments flagged with clear explanations of what went right or wrong. Learn to spot patterns in real time.

Rewrite Suggestions

NVC-based alternatives for your most heated messages. Learn to say what you mean without the damage.

Track & Grow

Create named relationship profiles. Track scores over time. See growth: "You used 30% fewer defensive responses this month."

Built on Real Science

The same tools therapists use

RelAI uses proven psychological frameworks — not generic AI chat. Every insight is grounded in research.

Gottman Method

Identifies the Four Horsemen of relationship breakdown: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.

Attachment Theory

Understands how your attachment style shapes your communication patterns and emotional responses.

Nonviolent Communication

Rewrites messages using observations, feelings, needs, and requests — Marshall Rosenberg's NVC framework.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Identifies cognitive distortions and thought patterns that escalate conflicts unnecessarily.

Pricing

Try 3 free analyses. No commitment.

See the value before you pay. Core analysis features work on the free tier.

Free
$0
Free forever
  • 3 analyses per month
  • Communication score
  • Tone map & perspectives
  • 5 cool-down rewrites/mo
  • 1 relationship profile
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Pro
$5.99/mo
or $49.99/year (save 30%)
  • Unlimited analyses
  • Unlimited relationships
  • Conversation Coach
  • Ask Your Relationship
  • Weekly digest
  • Growth tracking
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Premium
$11.99/mo
or $99.99/year (save 30%)
  • Everything in Pro
  • Screenshot OCR analysis
  • Audio transcription
  • Trigger mapping
  • Priority processing
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FAQ

Common questions

Is RelAI a replacement for therapy?
No. RelAI is an educational tool for self-awareness and communication improvement. For serious relationship concerns, please consult a licensed professional. Every analysis includes a reminder that insights are based only on your side of the conversation.
Are my conversations private?
Yes. All data is stored locally on your device. Our API is stateless — conversations are analyzed and immediately discarded. No long-term server storage, no data used for AI training, no ads, no tracking, no data selling.
What is the Communication Score?
A 0–100 score based on Dr. John Gottman's Four Horsemen of relationship breakdown: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. A higher score means healthier communication patterns. The score breaks down each factor individually.
What messaging apps work with RelAI?
Any app where you can copy text. iMessage, WhatsApp, Telegram, Instagram DMs, Facebook Messenger, Slack, Discord — just copy the conversation and paste it into RelAI.
How does Cool-Down Mode work?
Type or paste the angry message you were about to send. RelAI rewrites it using Nonviolent Communication (NVC) — replacing accusations with observations, feelings, and needs. Copy the better version and send that instead.
Can I track multiple relationships?
Yes. Create named profiles for different relationships (partner, friend, parent, boss). Track communication scores over time and see your growth with each person. Free tier supports 1 profile; Pro unlocks unlimited.

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conversations today

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